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why can't the women on hear juat say not interested 9/2/2018
what's up with the girls on hear they start talking
ask for pics and then just stop if they are not interested
why not just say that it is not a big deal just called manners
and being polite
5 Comments, 39 Views,
14 Votes
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prositioned 9/1/2018
say no somebody might be in a sting
1 Comments, 12 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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No thanks 8/31/2018
It's hard to get to know someone without chatting with
them to see if you click. But once they say no thanks, I do
my best to stop bugging them. <br><br>
Sometimes I say no thanks but that's normally just
to the perv guys, lol... <br><br>
Hope you all respect others.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Too many pushy people! 8/31/2018
We haven't been here long but have already figured
out there are way too many extremely pushy people!
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What do women think 8/29/2018
Are there women that are online only for looking a single
guys. I always try to chat and some women are married. Sometimes
I'm not sure I want to be safe and not have any drama.
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0 Votes
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just be polite thats all 8/29/2018
why do people have to be rude when you message them and show
an interest? mainly people politely decline but i have
had people who are damn right rude and abusive. <br><br>
all you have to do is be polite and say no thanks! what do people think?
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What 8/24/2018
What
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Life is how you make it 8/16/2018
Life is how you make it if you want something to happen make
it happen only you can do it no one else
1 Comments, 7 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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it doesnt take much to politely decline 8/15/2018
i find it incredible that there are people on this site who
choose to abuse you in some way or are not very polite when
they answer a message. <br><br>
it doesnt take much to be polite and say no thanks even being
ignored is better than being rude.
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0 Votes
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Replying/not replying to a IM 8/11/2018
So, I tend to have a habit of trying to reply to anyone that
IM's me whether I'm interested or not. I've
been wondering though. Is it better to not reply if I'm
not interested? What do you all think? Polite to reply that
you're not interested or better to not reply at all?
0 Comments, 16 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Why is it weird for guys to say "No thanks" 8/9/2018
Why is it weird when a guy turns down a girl? Maybe hes not
attracted... girls can do it all the time, but a guy does
it and theres something wrong with him.
4 Comments, 32 Views,
12 Votes
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Say it firmly but politely 8/7/2018
If you are saying "NO THANKS" Say it with conviction
but not with harsh words. Understood some people simply
don't get it because in their minds eye they are the
most desirable of all partners. If they get TOO persistant
Block them
2 Comments, 22 Views,
16 Votes
,3.42 Score
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Try to be nice to everyone. 7/24/2018
We get a lot of messages from others that we are not interested
in. I always try and tell them that we are not interested
but appreciate them taking the time to us. Our response
is thanks for the message but we are not interested in you
but wish you luck in your search. We have had some that say
thanks you to. Then we have had some that get very offended
and say mean things. I sorry but we are ...
4 Comments, 65 Views,
16 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Was punished for saying "No Thanks" 7/17/2018
I live in gated secured condo complex and I love using the
workout room and hitting the pool but there is a woman who
always appears and tries to engage in conversation. I have
told her she is not my type, that I wasnt looking for a liaison
and just wanted my peace. <br><br>
An hour later, po-po show up and ask all kinds of questions
about the lady. I didnt even know her name!! ...
3 Comments, 35 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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Just Say I'm Not Interested 7/8/2018
I am trying to figure out why ladies won't say they are
not interested. Instead some choose to not answer respectful
approaches from a gentleman. This is very irritating.
Most men can accept when they are not wanted, and is told
so. Ladies I know you can do better. It's only a select
few. Unfortunately some men think with the wrong head.
.
4 Comments, 39 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Chemistry 6/29/2018
So if you meet someone from here and find out the chemistry
is just not there, how do you handle it? Do you treat it like
any regular date, or because it started with an emphasis
on meeting for adult fun, end the encounter quickly. Either
way, i think its best to be thoughtful of the impact on others
feelings.
3 Comments, 14 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Cam play 6/26/2018
Why is everyone so afraid
2 Comments, 19 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Be polite 6/17/2018
When somebody sends you a message about being interested
in you, the least you can do if your not interested is just
be polite and say “ no thank you “.
3 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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A female perspective on saying "No thanks." 6/16/2018
There are so many articles on here about "just tell
us you're not interested" and how "ignoring
someone is rude." <br><br>
As a woman on here, I get a lot of messages and IMs. In fact,
I always try to turn off IMs when I first log on because I just
don't have the time or ability to reply to every, single
message I get. It's not meant to be rude... If I ...
8 Comments, 185 Views,
29 Votes
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How to say No Thanks, when meeting in person first time 6/15/2018
How do you politely say no thanks, once you've finally
met in person, without coming off rude?
3 Comments, 27 Views,
4 Votes
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when enough is enough 6/14/2018
when some becomes too pushy and you have to say no thanks,
should be enough for any man or woman. letsd have some
respect in this world.
2 Comments, 12 Views,
6 Votes
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Przyj\ciele 6/9/2018
http://Swing Hookups.com
0 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
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ouch 6/9/2018
I love all the people on here that take these amazing pictures
that fool you into thinking they look amazing. Then they
send you a more real picture, this is when I feel lied to!
LOL I know that makes me sound shallow but I have a wide sweep
in taste and some of these pictures are scary. I always get
these after chatting for a while and then I never know what
to say. I don't want to be rude ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Swing Hookups IM 5/30/2018
Wondering what every ones thought are on the IM here. Is
it just me or does it seem extremely rude to not at least say
no thanks to a chat request. I understand some people get
bombarded with requests but when I can see that it has been
read at least say no thank you and move on.
2 Comments, 34 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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why do women not reply 5/26/2018
most of the women i send messages to don't reply they
could at least say not interested or no thanks
7 Comments, 62 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Saying "No Thanks" 5/23/2018
If someone writes you or even IMs you and you are not interested
... Please have the courtesy to say "no thanks"
or "Sorry Im not interested". Dont keep them
guessing if you are just busy. Thats how everyone on here
gets annoyed and frustrated. Just a thought that might
help others 
5 Comments, 52 Views,
13 Votes
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A difference between aggression and desperation 5/21/2018
I'm sort of torn commenting on this. <br><br>
I love it when a woman is confident and strong or submissive
and meek, either is attractive. It's hard to say no
when someone is "desperate" though, too handsy,
overly aggressive and sloppy...ya no thanks.
1 Comments, 11 Views,
5 Votes
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Monologue Responding to IM messages 5/17/2018
I'm sure you all experience monologuing when you chat
and no one else answers. Such a waste of time. All it takes
is for you to reply "no thanks" don't leave
us hanging.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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why do so few do this...? 5/12/2018
Why do so few people have the courtesy to say a simple "no
thanks" as opposed to just ignoring a chat request?
9 Comments, 69 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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People that don't respond 5/9/2018
How hard is it to say "No thanks." or "I'll
pass". With the sketchy performance of Swing Hookups's
Messenger, how is any to know if an actual message is
getting through? I don't mind saying, "Sorry,
not what I'm looking for at this time." but...nothing???
That's just rude anytime and anywhere. Your thoughts?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
7 Votes
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