'lo folks, Educated/professional couple, married for quite some time and not *entirely* new to the open relationship thing. We're both culturally pretty white/heterosexual but have many friends who aren't. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person This has a "big picture" answer and a "little picture" one. The "little picture" is that when it comes to the idea of sharing her husband, the wife could generally take it or leave it. On the other hand, the husband's libido goes through the roof at the thought of his wife being shown a good time, so much so that our experience w/couples is that he gets too damn distracted! "Hotwife" yes, "cuckold" no, although the husband can't discount an interest in "cheating" scenarios.

We're understandably picky when it comes to play partners, but we have at least a bit of experience with the wife SEXTing, videochatting, and interacting in-person with selected men. Profiles that are heavy on shots of your junk or sixth-grade grammar we take as a bad sign. However, having some pics to share, being comfortable with conversation, and having a decent sense of humor will be crucial. At least initially you must be fine meeting with us both and, should it get to that point, having the husband play voyeur.

The "big picture" is that we really just enjoy the idea of hanging out socially with other couples who we can be fully open with, flirtatious or not. If that morphed into something more that *could* be the best of all possible worlds, it's all about the chemistry (and the voyeuristic fixations of the husband)!

The other part of the "big picture" is that we're very keen to connect but also painfully aware of current realities. We're both COVID-19 vaccinated but aware of the fluctuating value of that and the general dangers of public interaction. The upshot is that we may be playing it safe and in general will privilege online interaction, al fresco dining, and well-ventilated social venues!

BONUS! A couple of potentially useful online articles for those guys new to erotic photography:

Zane, Z. "How to Take the Perfect Dick Pic, According to Experts" Men's Health (Mar 1, 2021)

Hsieh, C., Andrews, T. and Varina, R. "25 People Describe What They Want to See in a Dick Pic" Cosmopolitan (Aug 23, 2021)