I have been in various parts of the adult lifestyle for almost 30 years. I started in the swing lifestyle at the Farm Travel Club before doing house parties. I later became in various levels of the BDSM community. I am a person who is perfectly happy and experienced in almost any part of this community. My vanilla life is all about travel, photography, meeting new people and exploring everything. I do most of this solo but always up to meet new people on the journey or maybe have someone join in. I am open to teach you about cool stuff as well as learn from you. Bare with me as I slowly get my profile up and running. I will have face pictures saved for people i become friends with. I am not married or dating but I do prefer a degree of privacy from the masses. Just ask and I will be happy, in most cases, to share with you.

My Ideal Person So what am I looking for? Once again this is a very open thing. I am looking for everything from a platonic friend to a FWB. Maybe it will be a short term or long term relationship? Maybe it will be a travel partner or a D/S or DD/LG arrangement. So many options and I am open to all. I find life goes better with no preconceived ideas or needs.
So what should you be like? Race, age and physical characteristics are important but not as much as how well we click. I value intelligence, sense of humor, feeling of adventure and honesty.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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