B)[B] Here is the deal. At 61, I am retired, financially secure and independent. I am seeing black men[B] EXCLUSIVELY[/B],[/SIZE]..the chemistry is off the chain. I am retired and living in beautiful Grass Valley. I'm seeking quality men that will add to the adventure of my life. [B]I'm not desperate or desperately seeking a sex partner.[/B] After being on this site for many years and having been with the men that have treated me like a woman should be treated, I will not settle for less than I deserve.[B][/B] [B][/B]I clearly know this is not a dating site, but I need men who "get me" sexually and who can KEEP UP with me. I have been in the lifestyle and on this site for years. I am open to finding a relationship on this site. Be prepared for a woman who has given a lot of thought to exactly what she wants. I understand the attraction of having multiple partners. I am seeking a friend and lover, it doesn't have to be exclusive unless we both want & chose that. I am extremely open and honest and tell it like I see it. If you can not handle that I am not the woman for you. [B] [B][B][/B] I am a multi-orgasmic woman..so if your idea of sex is to cum and then promptly fall asleep.....pass me by! Please!!! I have had never had any complaints..only compliments on my sex skills..and the same should go for you. [B][/B] [/B] [B][B] I am not clingy, I have a life and enjoy spending time alone, but also miss male companionship. I am at my peak sexually, comfortable with who I am and always wanting more! [/B] [/B] [B]I am open minded, honest, uninhibited, passionate, sensual and have a wicked nasty side! I am "touchy feely", so "watch out". [B] I prefer to be with people that are down to earth and not afraid of intimacy on an emotional level as well as physical. [/B] [B]I expect to be treated with respect. I give 100% and expect nothing less in return. I give as good as I get.[B][/B] [SIZE 3][B][/B]DO NOT ask me to provide another woman to fulfill your fantasy. IF YOU WANT TWO WOMEN U FIND THEM![B][/B][/SIZE] [B]I don't mind hosting, but if you cum to my house please don't cum empty handed and expect me to provide everything. [B][/B] [/B] [B][SIZE 2][B]I am not interested in married or attached men. I don't care what your story is, DO NOT WRITE TO ME! [/SIZE] [/B] [B]I am not interested in long distance relationships, if you do not live within 50 miles of me and IN CALIFORNIA do not write to me. [B][/B][/B] [B]I am not interested in never ending e-mails if you can't give me your phone number and be reached to talk on the phone, don't waste my time![/B] [B]Do not write to me if you cannot send face, body, and naked pictures. I am not asking for anything from you that I am not giving in return. I am a very real and giving per and expect equal treatment [/B] [B]I adore both men and woman and am bi serious! I enjoy spending time with single women or couples if the opportunity arises. I also enjoy attending parties![/B][/B][/B][B]

My Ideal Person I am seeing black men EXCLUSIVELY,..the chemistry is off the chain. I am looking for a man that first has a job, car, and doesn't live with his parents . I don't think its that much to ask.

I have a playful, adventurous nature that can be brought to life by a fellow confident, passionate, sensual man... I crave stimulation on multiple levels...I am turned on by intelligent conversation. I am looking for a man who is educated, and who has a curious and active mind. I crave a man with a passion for life as well as sex. I value good communication and intimacy. I love a partner with quick wit and easy laughter, a sense of humor is a must.

I am looking for a man who is comfortable with his sexuality and inspires me with his romanticism... someone to cuddle...I'm seeking a friend with benefits...A man that can afford to live life, who is financially secure and willing to color outside the lines.

I am not perfect and do not expect you to be either. I am real. I am honest, I do what I say I am going to do and I am not a flake. Fitness and health are important to me. I spend time keeping fit and request the same from a partner. I am shaved, clean, and well groomed.

It is important to me that there be chemistry and that there is time for FOREPLAY. I enjoy movies, music, dinner, a good bottle of wine, traveling, & intelligent conversation!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Anita Baker, Akon, Eric Clapton, Joss Stone, Jay Z, Black
Eyed Peas, R Kelly, Marvin Gaye, Sade, Tre

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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