The perfect date may be different for different people. For one it may be a long walk on the beach, while for another, a dinner and movie would be ideal. And then, of course, there are some whose idea of a perfect date is a bit more adventurous or erotic! A good first date for me, one should get to know each other without forcing awkward conversation. Taking in activity, getting active to find some common ground or trying something new together to create space for vulnerability and set the stage for a strong bond. If all its well at this point and possibly a second date or if thing are a little spicy, there's my secret list of ideas: 1. Have sex all over the house (or see how far we can go at least…) 2. Be a all over again (being creative if you know what I mean, a little public sexual mischief doesn’t hurt anyone…) 3. Read erotica to each other the other pleasures themselves. 4. Bring in a third party (Furst time for everything. Well, hey, it's a bucket list item…) 5. Have phone sex at separate tables in a public place and see who will kneel first… lol 6. Watch porn together as if we are playing a twister game! Haha 7. Must try list item number (2) Give anal sex a shot. (the giver) 8. Try out full body lube massage together. 9. Play with ice or ice cream on body parts and see who gives in first…. (hmm lets see…) 10. Role play (skies the limits…) 11. Buy a sexy board game looser takes all… 12. Get wet and wild with shower sex hot or cold shower indoor or out… Hmmm 13. I wanna try ASMR sex seem hair raising and erotic! Maybe hot moaning a lot during sex and record… Hmm 18. Visit a sex shop and pick out some new toys or vibrators…(Nice right?)… 20. Have a sexy scavenger hunt and the items found have to be utilized in some way sexual… 21. Car sex (enough said) or do tons of dry humping any an everywhere you can both private and public places…

My Ideal Person Be a thinker, or at least hold a conversation, Hygiene because everyone likes making love to a clean and tidy partner, Oral sex, Self care mentally, emotionaly, spiritualy and physically.